Wednesday, May 25, 2011

"Humanity and Faith"..

I know a person.i met him very late in life i must have seen him,spoken to him very much ago.Through him i understood a loads of things about life about humanity and about faith,he has a very interesting story to share..and he calls that story his life.
He never read books and mugged up his studies,he rather thought that he do not require to study as he heard what did the teachers speak.Not that interesting as all rich upbringing he had a normal  lifestyle. His hobbies were just to help and feel for others,i was quite amazed as seems to be one of my kind,so was quite more interested to lend him my ears.
He was blessed with everything in life and lost everything in life and he think that he is blessed with that too.
Interesting man,lets go ahead and step in his life with his prior permission.
Humanity the word suits him but as said every sunrise is followed with darkness.he has just lived for others since childhood and always cared for others. His school days got over,he had no plans for himself even though he got admitted to the best college in India. He thought that everything will come in his way as it has in the past. Well determined in what he says and a friend of friend during school days. Yeah,he did mentioned girls were mad over him,the way he used to speak and the way he used to take a stand for others. He was a boy whom every parents would want to have ,no bad habits,no fights only love to share and give.
THE DRAMATIC TURN-
As mentioned he always used to be with everyone,to say the most popular one.but never got away with anyones feelings or proposals.
One fine day he met a girl,shy beautiful adorable and most importantly a great daughter.
They started meeting rather dating. Both were in deep love. He never realized that one fine day even he will join the community called love.
Everything was going fine but suddenly during his last year of college days they had to part away,he had a option to be in her life but he rejected because he knew her,she would never stop feeling for him if he's around,but the decisions were not in their hands- For the first time i was in tears in my life after hearing this incident. He is a a professional now and doing well in his life i was dam interested to know more about his life.what happened next??
"HIS SAYINGS IS A LEARNING TO ALL INDIVIDUALS WHO READ THIS BLOG"
He thought some how he had the potentials to recover and start living again as he used to do,starts living for others for parents for friends..for everyone around him,but he could not,He started smoking and drinking in his loneliness he had no one to share his feelings but he started sharing once he was drunk. He thought he got his way to live,because the time he shared whats in his minds he was a bit relived,the drinks became his habit along with other ways of intoxication.But he never stopped caring for others,he could not do to his best but managed to do what he could have done,Everything was same,his popularity,his well being everything but the only thing which was different was he himself,he started hating himself for no reason,started being away from everyone in his life who knew about his relations-I thought is this love???
No,its not love.it was his madness which he realize now.
He was ready to do everything in his life but never love anyone else,but life after all never leaves anyone, he got feelings which were true,friend which were true once again,now the only thing which he needed to do was to realize all the present situations.He knew everything around was just happening to get him live again with his true spirits. he tried to live again,he tried to love again,but realized he is not in a state to give commitments to anyone,and he was not at fault (i thought),because its useless to play with any feelings if one do not feel.
In this game of love he was blamed badly by everyone,lost trust of every friend around him,the only thing which he could do was to keep quite because his silence was a lock to few people true reality,which he did not shared with everyone,but again he did when he was drunk-He still curse himself for this-I said to him,its not all tour fault,yes,you are to be blamed because even though in intoxication you said ill about few people "WHICH INDEED WERE ALL TRUE".. but the reality is everyone belief where tears flow down his mistake was he had no tears inside him,to prove his innocence.
He said his life is filled with loads of shocks and sorrows,he never got anything via sharing those.Now he has stopped sharing his feelings to anyone not also to the only person he fell once over again,
His bottle of drink was over,
 Now the same person,does nothing,nothing for others. he just goes to office and comes back and is a good position in his firm...
Are people bad just because they do not do as people wanted him to do.
Is this guy so bad ..??
The entire night i was thinking over the entire conversation we had.
I could have done nothing for him just to lend my ears and force him to speak and take his heart out for the last time..
Love killed his humanity or intoxication killed his humanity??
THE MOTIVATION TO BE TAKEN-
The next morning i got up at 11 in the morning and saw his message in my inbox as-




HUMANITY AND FAITH 
We all are humans,we all have a faith..
We all do love someone,we all also hate.
As you asked me if you can post my story,i allowed if my name is not mentioned,but do also write this that the next morn,that same stupid guy messaged me this..


Nothing you get via drinking nothing you loose via loving..
I NOW AM TRYING HARD TO BRING BACK THAT Mr.myself back in my life once again..






Nice meeting you sir,and seriously meeting you was a great experience because it also show me where and individual could land to via bad habits...!!
STAY AWAY FROM DRUGS----
MJ.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

                                     FIFTY POLICE-MEN


Fifty police men is a fact to share. We talk big about our police-men and their security.


Well the real facts is police-men works when they wants to. A bus driver was caught smoking while driving and I quickly captured his picture and most interestingly he was taking to a road security police while smoking and driving and finally ends sharing his “BIDI” with public servent.


It was all started when I was travelling to my institute in a shuttle, the place was near airport.


I found a buss driver smoking and driving and driving a buss with a tag keep pollution free city.


I smiled and said myself ‘this is our future’, we do not grow because we do not want to grow actually, we shout at seeing others fault and proudly commit the same mistake, there are around fifty police officials in that area to manage the traffic during the busy hours of the day and doing actually nothing to control the traffic and busy having break-fast and that too for free. The get up in shuttles,busses,cars and do not pay the fair and these people are regarded as the most prestigious people because they are into police who are so called the security people of the nation..


A police man is one who is honest in his work, standing strong in heat and in rain for other;s protection,not having break-fast and lunches and dinners for free of cost and take everyday some money from road side small business holders who earn their income hard for survival.


‘ARE THE PROTECTING OR KILLING US’






All I want through this message are ears to listen and stand strong against this deeds of police-men. And waitng for a day when actually smoking will be prohibited in public.


“INDIA IN BAD TIMES”



                                                               WORK IS LIFE

REAL INDIA-3


“NOT THAT PROUD TO WRITE THIS”

We often speak of our economy which is growing,the foreign investments which are emergingly growing day by day,the industries,the professionalism,culture and many more fake pride of ours.






‘WELL THE REAL INDIA LIES IN THE PICTURE  BELOW’


“HAABU” a tea stall owner born in Kolkata the city of joy.He lost his father when he was just 4 years old,his mother being a maid servent hardly could manage two time meal for her children. Haabu’s interests were in playing football and wanted to represent mohan bagan ‘the favourite of bengal’. Haabu was not good at his studies as admitted by him, his younger sister likes painting, he used to take off fruits from trees and sell it to fruit-seller in the nearby market to get brushes and colours for his sister. He always dreamt of a business of his own,he always thought “bhai aamar toh aami chalia nebo” but yes a responsibility was there at his head after the death of his mother at the age of 54 in a road accident,they have to sell of their house and stay in a hut which is a rented one,.One incident I recall of haabu when I actually I saw the miracle. He was playing as the goal-keeper, the match was drawn and the last minute was on of the game,he defeated all the opponent players and scored a goal all alone from one end to the other implementing all his talent to score a goal and return back home with the winner’s trophy. That is what passion can result.


He now runs a tea stall,getting up at 4 o’clock opening his stall and going back home at night 11 o’clock. He is 29 and single,he stays alone at his home as he got his sister married to a jewellery shop owner.


In a conversation with him,he says he will to open few more shops to get married,I got interested and wanted to know more that how do actually he can do all this as he is all alone in life. He explained me the rates at which he would get the place for rent for his new store,the stoves where he can get them at the most cheaper rates,the people he has choosed where all nearby neighbours..and most importantly he spoke at the locations and the name of his shop..


“SHOCKING HE COVERED THE ENTIRE M.B.A. COURSE “


He never went to school after six. And he spoke all


1.The positioning strategy.


2.The raw materials gathering.


3. The branding.


4.The infrastructure and people..


A person who was never been allowed by the almighty to go through books knows all. His was a true sole person without any guidance standing strong and living strong.

“IF INVESTMENTS ARE REQUIRED ITS HERE TO LET THE REAL INDIA GROW”

Not in the place where it won’t result any share of income.. Haabu not only have plans for him but also for his next door people and locality members. What india need is to invest on these people who have the fire in their minds to allocate wealth to everyone nor just themselves.

After meeting him now I strongly belive on the lines as below:-

“WHERE THERE IS A WILL THERE IS A WAY”…


Tuesday, July 13, 2010

AN IDEA.

A three wheelers which has shown its presence since the real innovation started in india. Major occupation of the rurals,earning per day around Rs150. Totally opposite to the current management funda. 80% labour and 20% output according to the 80-20 rule in the six sigmas.rickshaw pullers suffer from regular health problems, most of them gets in habbit to wrong things like intoxication,drugs,drinks..


Normally the areas political parties which are growing day by day as politics has become an occupation as per i think. They take care of managing their workings. Every city has a rickshaw union.

Organising an foundation which only look after this sort of people who almost risk their life their health just to feed the remaining members of their family. So that his daughter/son can go to school, and also look after the management going hand in hand with the local politicians...

As the experts say every idea is a good idea.

BEING HUMAN.

Raju, job picking up plastic materials and suppling it everyday to the concerned person. When i was passing through the unknown lanes of Delhi during my internship i intend to talk to this boy who was very busy as others in this cruel world. Imaginations got stopped when i met him and talked to him .It was an electricfing experience but the reality lie as...


IS THERE ANY FUTURE FOR HIM??

Thursday, May 6, 2010

"THE REAL INDIA"-1


The complete life, the perfect pattern, includes old age as well as youth and maturity. The beauty of the morning and the radiance of noon are good, but it would be a very silly person who drew the curtains and turned on the light in order to shut out the tranquillity of the evening. Old age has its pleasures, which, though different, are not less than the pleasures of youth.
And now the end is near
And so I face the final curtain,
I’ll state my case of which I’m certain.
I’ve lived a life that’s full, I traveled each and ev’ry highway,
And more, much more than this. I did it my way.

It is funny how everyone wants to live long but no one wants to grow old. Old age is viewed as an unavoidable, undesirable, problem-ridden phase of life that we all are compelled to live, marking time until our final exit from life itself.
Perceiving old age with fear is actually a rather recent phenomenon. It seems to increase as each day passes and the world becomes more complex and less comprehensible. Earlier, when life was simpler and values counted for more, those who reached a ripe old age held an enviable place in society where they could really relax and enjoy their twilight years, secure in the knowledge that they still commanded attention, respect and affection, and that though they were well past their prime, all that they had given their best for was still important- and so were they.

As in the picture shows two street lovers who have no support to live other than BEGGING..

THIS IS THE REAL INDIA..AND EVERY SINGLE MOMENT WE CHERISH FOR OUR SUCCESS..OUR REAL SUCCESS LIES IN CHANGING THIS WORLD OF POORS.
GET UP GUYS AND DO SOMETHING DIRECTLY RATHER THAN SICKLY DONATION.BELIVE IN YOURSELF AND THE CHANGE YOU CAN BRING..

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Is There Any Future For Them...

Is there any future for these childrens who stays behind the wall of what we say the change,(sector-5) Kolkata.known for the infrastructual growth that it has brought to kolkata..
Offices like TATA,WIPRO,INFOSYS,IBM,DLF..and many more.
And we talk of CSR when this people suffers from infection,hunger and many more problems..do we do anything.the answer is "no",NGO's its time for them to get awake and do some real work apart geting grants from the goverment and helping the corporate world to show a fake CSR.we need to take a stand.I can not do it alone thats a truth,during my research in Delhi on social bodies i have realised what is the real functioning of NGO's. 


When talking to these children they don't go to schools.In their home there are five members and only one income head their dad,who is a watchman in a nearby office.can we say 
WHAT IS THE FUTURE OF OUR PEOPLE WHO WILL BE OVER-TAKING OUR POSITIONS IN TIME TO COME.
All i would request to highlight the important of educated people like us,our role in changing life of millions and millions of people who hardly have a way to survive..
WAKE UP AND APART FOR LOOKING JOBS IF WE HAVE SOME AUTHORITY TO CHANGE THEIR LIVES IT WOULD BE GREAT.
ITS TIME TO BRING A CHANGE....
LET US DO IT TOGETHER.